Love over sex for Sonam

Sonam Kapoor on casual hook-ups,sex and long-term relationships ...

SonamKapoor on casual hook-ups,sex and long-term relationships...
What'syour definition of love?
Ifyou truly love a person, you have to respect that person first. You do not tryto change the person. Which is why I love the Mughal-e -Azam romance.She was anautch girl and he was the future king,but status didn't matter to either ofthem.That's love.Unfortunately,people from my generation don't get that.They tryto ride on each other and are very selfish.For me,it is important that theperson I am in love with makes me feel comfortable.He needs to besensitive,compassionate andintellectual.
What'syour take on extra-marital affairs?

Disgusting!There is no excuse for an extra-marital affair.I will never forgive my partnerif he cheats on me.I will not be able to trust him anymore.I will just walkout.
Whatcomes first, love or sex?
Forme,love.
Iflove is blind, why is lingerie so popular?
Becausemen only think about two things - sex andfood.
Howwill you know when you find the one?
Whenyou meet the person, you know.When I connect with the right person,a bell in myhead will ring.And when he's not there,I will misshim.

Ismarriage necessary?
Iam very old fashioned. I don't believe in live-in relationships. Marriage isnecessary forme.
Wouldyou prefer a love or an arranged marriage?
Either,Ihave no rules aboutthis.
Shouldn'tmarriages come with expiry dates?
Notexpiry dates, but yes,we must growtogether.
Towhat extent will you go to save your relationship?
Iam a loyalist.I will try to iron out the problems because for me,marriage is forkeeps.
Whatwould you not forgive in love?
Disrespectto me or myparents.
Doyou have any keepsakes in the name of love?
Iwrote a poem when I was 15 years old.It's about me,who I am,who I want to be,howI want to live my life.When I meet my love,I am going to give him thispoem.
Whentwo people are in love, who do you think should make the first move?
Theone who is moreevolved.
Howimportant is being in love?
Itis very important to me. But unfortunately,I haven't met the rightperson.
Doyou have any pre-conceived notions about love?
Ihave the most beautiful rich girlstruggling boy story in my own family.Myparents dated for 11 years because my father was very clear that he would marrymy mother only after he earned well enough to provide for her.My mother was surethat she would marry only him and so she waited till he was settled.That's thekind of love I believe in.Sadly,people my age have stopped learning how to workon their relationships,how to be patient,or sit back and smell theroses.
Amongall human traits,which is the one that you particularly appreciate?
Thereare two,actually - patience andtrust.
Youare fashion conscious.Do well-groomed looks promise a good relationship?
Onedoesn't have to follow fashion trends to sustain a relationship.In anycase,Indian men do not understand fashion.I will have to groomhim.
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